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Wednesday 29th February 2012.
I find it amazing, probably a little too much, that we are just given this extra day every four years. I find it quite surreal but there it is. I think in an ideal world that everyone should just be given this day to go and do something amazing and fun that they've never done before.
Of course there is the tradition that women can propose on the leap day. So, maybe you or someone you know proposed to their guy. If it was accepted, well, everything is fine and dandy. However, if the proposal wasn't greeted as well as you hoped and they declined.. don't worry - you don't have to leave empty handed.
Supposedly, a 1288 law by Queen Margaret of Scotland (then age five and living in Norway), required that fines be levied if a marriage proposal was refused by the man; compensation ranged from a kiss to £1 to a silk gown, in order to soften the blow. In some places the tradition was tightened to restricting female proposals to the modern leap year day, February 29, or to the medieval (bissextile) leap year day, February 24.
In Denmark, the tradition is that women may propose on the bissextile leap year day, February 29, and that refusal must be compensated with 12 pairs of gloves
In Finland, the tradition is that if a man refuses a woman's proposal on leap year day, he should buy her the fabrics for a skirt
- Wikipedia
To be perfectly honest, I think i'd feel a little better about any potential rejection if I thought there were possibilities of new dresses (or even twelve pairs of gloves).
I hope you've had a lovely leap day. See you same place, same time, in 4 years. I wonder what will have changed by then. (I'll be 20 that year!)
Victoria xx
